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Top 5 Tips To Writing Your First Online Message

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You’ve set up your online profile, you added some hot pictures and now you’re stuck trying to figure out what to say to all these hot strangers. Have know worries I’m about to help you write the best first message. Below I’ve listed some great tips, to get you on the right track and help you to make the best first impression. You may not have realized it but what you say and how you say it makes a huge difference.

Tip #1

Grammer – Now is not the time to use wild abbreviations or nettalk. This is a perfect time, to put the spellcheck feature to use. Believe it or not receiving a message full of misspellings can be a major turn off.

Tip #2

Avoid Physical Compliments – Calling a women beautiful, gorgeous, sexy etc when you don’t know her is an automatic turn off. It comes across as a cheesy pick up line and should be avoided at all costs.

Tip #3

Use Unusual Greetings – Stay away from the one word Hello, Hi and Hey’s. It’s better to use more detailed starters like How’s it going, How are you doing etc. It’s important to have a casual tone and not get all creepy with the compliments (tip #2).

Tip #4

Interests – Talk about specific interests that you have or common interests you may have with the person you are messaging. Review their profile closely so you have some insight into who they are and what they like.

Tip #5

Using words like awkward, sorry, apologize, kinda, and probably have been proven to work to a man’s advantage. Just be careful with how and when you use them. It’s unsure why these words are favored. Maybe it has to do with making the man seem less cocky. Women like men who are confident but not cocky!

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