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What Men Really Mean When They Say….

Lets see what he really means.

MEN in general don’t say much, and when they say things….well, it’s not exactly what they think. So, we’re going to break down a few common things what men really mean when they say…certain stuff.1. He says: We should hang out sometime.
He means: I’m afraid you’ll say ‘no’ if I ask you out.

2. He says: I’ll call you later.
He means: I may or may not call you at some point between now and three months from now.

3. He says: My ex is crazy.
He means: I screwed her over, and she got upset.

4. He says: That guy seems like a good friend of yours.
He means: Was there ever a thing between you?

5. He says: It’s a long story.
He means: It’s a story that makes me look bad.

6. He says: That’s a new look.
He means: You look weird.

7. He says: Why are you being so emotional?
He means: Why are you acting like a psycho?

8. He says: That’s not what I meant.
He means: That’s totally what I meant, but now that I see you’re mad, I wish I hadn’t said it out loud.

9. He says: It’s fine.
He means: It’s not actually fine, but I’m in no mood to discuss it.

10. He says: Can we talk about this later?
He means: I never want to talk about this again.

So girls now you know and don’t act surprised if he doesn’t want to talk to you or if he hasn’t called you yet.

Nicknames for Your Guy Based on His Personality

Yes he's definitely a Chucky.

GIRLS love to give their boyfriends nicknames. That cute name often speaks about his personality and describes him in a certain way. Whether he’s a hopelessly romantic or maybe a quick tempered guy, he’s your man and you love him. Here is a list of some popular nicknames for guys based on their personality.

If he loves cuddling with you then he’s a:

Snuggly * Snuggy *Hugster * Cuddly * Snuggleable * Cuddles * Cuddly Bear * Honey Bear * Cuddle Cakes

He’s a guy with a quick temper, or:

Snapper * Snapster * Bugbear * Tiger (or Tiggy) * Snappy * Chief

If your man is super attractive (and you’re lucky) then this hot nicknames are just for him:

Hot Chocolate * Hot Lips * Hot Stuff * Handsome * Good Looking * Sexy * Movie Star * Hero * Superstar * Heart Throb * Romeo * Knockout * Mr. Perfect *My Prince * Prince Charming

You guy has a great sense of humor and he laughs a lot, or:

Cherub * Elf * Poppins * Chucky (since he’s a “chuckler”) * Mickey (if he has a mickey mouse smile) * Jerry * (based on the Tom and Jerry character)

If he’s your chubby honey, and you just want to squeeze him, these nicknames will be perfect for him:

Cutiepie * Pumpkin * Jellybear * Winnie (based on Winnie the Poo)

Your boyfriend has a hunky personality, he is well muscled and he’s your:

Stud * Super Stud * Jocky * Jock * Hunk * Hunky * Raunchy (makes for a sexy nickname) * Superman * Tarzan * Big Guy * Playboy * Soldier

If he is soft warm and sensitive guy, than you can call him by these nicknames:

Puppy * Teddy * Pup *Toddy (short for ‘toddler’) * Sweetum * Teady Bear * Love Muffin * Baby Cakes * Sugams * Honey-Buns *Adorable My Sweet Boy * Sugar Puff

The Biggest Sex Mistakes Women Make

Which are the biggest sex mistakes women make?

THIS is for the ladies-Do not try to change your men in bed, instead try not to make the mistakes listed below and learn something more about your guy. So lets see the biggest sex mistakes women make.

Sex mistake 1: Women don’t understand why men don’t like to cuddle.

After sex, men return to the pre-aroused state, women return to a semi-aroused state. For guys it’s a total system shutdown. Men just want to crash, whereas women want to connect, cuddle, converse, even have more sex. Women shouldn’t assume that a guy is insensitive if he’s more inclined to snore than snuggle. He’s probably just shattered. Think of it as a compliment to the sex you just had. Men are just like that.

Sex mistake 2: Women don’t understand the extent to which performance anxieties, self-esteem issues and body-image issues all affect male sex drive.

Guys have many of the same issues as women when it comes to sex: feeling out of shape, unattractive, not wanting to be seen naked during sex. Also, when guys are stressed out about work/financial issues, it often leads to a shutdown of desire. In both men and women, low self-esteem equals low desire.
Men aren’t robots. They’re humans and worry about the same stuff females do. Also there’s pressure on men to provide good sex to women. They expect a lot from men in bed these days, and often expect men to be mind readers, rather than tell them what they want.

Sex mistake 3: Women think that men are always ready and willing to have sex any time, any place.

No way. As relationships progress over time the mental turn-on becomes more crucial than the physical turn-on, and sexual desire begins in the brain, not the groin. It’s true that young men probably are ready, willing and able to have sex at any point, but once a guy moves into his 20s, the pressure mounts in other areas of his life, like career, and he’s as capable of getting distracted by life’s problems as she is!

Sex mistake 4: Women don’t understand how men can differentiate so easily between love and sex.
One of the reasons is that during sex, women produce lots of oxytocin, a hormone that stimulates a strong emotional connection. As a result, women are more emotionally integrated when it comes to sex. That’s why casual sex and hookups often backfire for lots of women. Guys produce little to no oxytocin, and can easily have sex without any sense of emotional connection. It’s sex with no emotional strings attached.

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Christmas Quotes about Love

WISE thoughts are never enough, especially on Christmas. Spread the joy and open your heart. We wish you happy Holidays with these beautiful Christmas quotes about love.

Christmas is the time to let your heart do the thinking. Patricia Clafford

Every time we love, every time we give, it’s Christmas. Dale Evans

Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love! Hamilton Wright Mabi

Christmas is love in action. Every time we love, every time we give, it’s Christmas. Dale Evans

Keep your Christmas-heart open all the year round. Jessica Archmint

The only blind person at Christmastime is he who has not Christmas in his heart. Helen Keller.

Christmas is doing a little something extra for someone. Charles Schulz

There has been only one Christmas-the rest are anniversaries. W.J. Cameron.

Christmas gift suggestions: To your enemy, forgiveness.To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity. To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect. Oren Arnold

Gifts of time and love are surely the basic ingredients of a truly merry Christmas. Peg Bracken

This is the message of Christmas: We are never alone. Taylor Caldwell

As long as we know in our hearts what Christmas ought to be, Christmas is. Eric Sevareid

Santa is very jolly because he knows where all the bad girls live. Dennis Miller

Christmas is forever, not for just one day, for loving, sharing, giving, are not to put away like bells and lights and tinsel, in some box upon a shelf. The good you do for others is good you do yourself. Norman Wesley Brooks

Be wise and make your own Christmas quotes about love; tip: let your heart do the thinking.

10 Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman

Men women and the rules of attraction.

Every woman wants to know which are the traits that men find most attractive and makes them fall in love. Well ladies here are the major 10 turn ons when it comes to attracting a man.

Character

Men are attracted to a woman with strong character and integrity.The word ‘fidelity’ is becoming rarer nowadays even among women, who were historically more loyal of the two, and men find this to be bad news. So men are constantly on the look out for a woman who can invoke trust through her strength of character.

Sense Of Humor

A sense of humor is another factor that can be a major plus when it comes to attraction. Sense of humor is not necessarily the ability to crack jokes but the ability to understand and laugh at one.

Confidence

Men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident. They appreciate a woman who supports him emotionally and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open.

Modesty

Yes, men like modest women. Modesty in behavior, dressing and talking is what men look for in their ‘long-term’ partner. There is also a common consent among men that ‘hot’ women are less reliable, and high maintenance. In short, men love women who they can take home to their mother.

The woman’s voice

Men generally find women’s voice highly attractive. Some men love a strong voice in a woman, some prefer a soft tone, with a low pitch.Surveys have indicated that women subconsciously lower their voice when talking with a potential mate, which men find irresistible.

Soft heartedness

Men are more likely to fall in love with a woman who is soft, warm hearted, than a woman who is cold. Guys love to be cared for and so they tend to fall for a woman who offers them acceptance and warmth.

The Smile

A woman with a beautiful smile can easily win over a male heart. If you are prone to having a smiling face you are more likely to be approached by guys than when you have a smug, or frowning face. So keep smiling.

Physical features

As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman’s skin tone, lips, height and waist-to-hip ratio. Contrary to popular assumptions men are not bothered much about the size of the breasts or bottom when it comes to looking for a life mate. These factors are pretty much insignificant.

Her Eyes

Woman’s eyes are another another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men are simply mesmerized by the woman’s eyes. The eyes can speak a thousand words and this is very much true with it comes to attracting men.

Her Lips

Men love woman’s lips, especially fuller lips on a woman more attractive as they reflect the woman’s health and fertility.

At the end, do not forget, what man finds most attractive is YOU

Coping with a Breakup

You are devastated and there's nothing you can do--wrong your relationship is over, not your life.

Coping with a breakup is never easy. Whatever the reason for the split and whether or not you wanted it, the breakup of a long-term relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings.

It’s normal and often necessary to work through the loss of a significant relationship. Some even offer a formula, that for every year you are involved, you should not date for one month. For example, if you dated someone for two years, after the breakup, you shouldn’t date anyone for two months. When a relationship ends, you may become more aware of what can be done or learn what to avoid the next time. Learning form the past is absolutely crucial.

Regardless of what happened in the relationship,  you need to keep a positive state of mind. Keep yourself busy with work or school so that you have less time wallowing in misery. If during the first week after the breakup, you found yourself crying like crazy, now’s a very good time to stop pitying yourself and do other things that matter.

Hang out with your family and friends. Catch up on news about them. Usually when we are in a relationship, we sometimes forget about the other people in our lives. Bond with your loved ones and do something special. This will help you move on faster than by simply being on your own. Have fun and treasure the memories you have together.

Use this time of transition in your life to rediscover yourself, to reevaluate your life priorities, and to expand new interests. A breakup can also signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning and organizing your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level.

Though at the beginning, it may seem like there’s no getting over your ex, you’ll realize in the end that the world did not end when your relationship did. There are so many things outside waiting for you.

When you're coping with breakup don't forget tomorrow is a brand new day a perfect moment for a brand new beginning.