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Online Dating Stories: What I look For in a Man Online

Here at ICUDating.com, we regularly feature real stories from online daters who want a medium where they can share their online dating stories with the world anonymously. This candid piece was submitted to ICUDating.com by a young woman who considers herself to be somewhat of an online dating expert because of her extensive experience with several online dating services.   

What I Look For in a Man Online

I’ve been a member of Fling for like 4 months so far. So, I think it’s about time I share some of what I’ve learned with the rest of the ladies looking for a good time online. The good news is that there are plenty of really HOT men on Fling, and it can be totally anonymous. That’s perfect for me because I’m married and I’m not about to give up my house and my car just so I can get some big dick from a guy on the side. If you use Fling the right way you can meet handsome men and have all the booty calls you want, but you should follow some simple rules to keep it safe and fun.

First, always meet in a public place. Not their house or some parking lot. The times I’ve hooked up in a hurry I met the guy at the lobby of a nice local hotel. That lets me look him over and go for a drink at the bar with him to make sure he is safe to play with. Also, by using a hotel I can keep my sex life private from my husband and there are never any sheets to clean… lol.

The other thing is you need to know what dating online is and what it isn’t. I see the commercials on television about how people found true love online. Maybe that’s possible, but most of the women I know from Fling are married already. We aren’t looking for long term relationships and commitments… we already have those. What we want is some passion and excitement, something a hard twentysomething year old man can provide us with two or three times a week. When we get bored we move on, and online dating sites let you do that a whole lot easier than the messy relationships you make with people you meet at bars and clubs.  Like my girlfriend says… suck, fuck, click they’re gone!

It’s a new world out there and women can be in total control of it if we play smart and safe. I’d stay away from small no-name dating sites, and the ones are TV are usually a waste of time too. Go with the ones that are big enough to bring you plenty of choices and the ones that are for ‘adults only’ if you want to find real men worth meeting. And if you’re a guy reading this near Chicago… at least 5’ 9” tall and packing at least seven inches… find me on Fling.com, I’m looking for someone this weekend. That’s the truth about online dating from a woman who has put in the time to find out for sure.