I C U Dating Online

Create The Perfect Online Dating Profile

When it comes to adult dating, things have never been so easy. With so many technology advances these days adult dating sites like WealthyMen.com and Fling.com have made things so easy for all their customers. Aside from being easy they are also completely FREE. These sites make hooking up fun and exciting. You can make your profile extremely discreet or open for all to see. You can video chat, instant message, surf profiles and view tons of pictures. Whether you’re looking to find love and just wanting a quick hook up there’s someone out there for you.

Below you will find some helpful tips to help you on your online dating journey. It doesn’t matter whether you’ve been on board the online dating scene for some time, or this is your first go at it. Just remember  that as you are browsing through hundreds of  profiles trying to see who are the ones that stand out, there are just as many surfing through your profile as well. That’s right, so before you go sending emails lets focus on your online profile first. If you want to get the right response, you’ll have to put some thought and work into it.

*Your pictures! First of all yes you MUST have pictures; no pictures equal no responses! While it’s important to have pictures up it’s even more important what kind and how many pictures you display. How many pictures should you add to an online dating profile? It’s agreed that 5-10 pictures is ideal, make sure they are flattering and ACCURATE pictures of yourself. Don’t post up pictures of yourself with your friends male or female. The pictures should be of yourself . If you have kids or pets you can add one picture of them. This is ok since it also gives the other person something to comment on.

*Your profile! This is a woman’s first insight on who you are and what you are about. This is the first impression you will have on her. Make yourself stand out, don’t write the same things as everyone else. You love to have fun and make the most out of life… Great so does everyone else, at least on their profile. Talk about things that make you unique and who you are. Talk about things that are important to you, make jokes to show you have a sense of humor. Next, you’ll want to make sure that your profile is the right length. You don’t want it to be too short or over-exaggerated either. Read it and see if you would want to keep reading or if the length will have skipping over it. Last finish it off by asking a question like recommended restaurants/lounges. This will once again give the women an opening to email or message you.

* Your outgoing emails! Send many there’s nothing young with emailing many women. After all the more you email the more responses you’ll be capable of getting. Not everyone is going to reply, it’s ok don’t take it as a sign of rejection. Some people don’t check their accounts daily, some may have already started someone and some may not be interested. Life goes on! Keep it moving keep sending out your emails and replies. Keep them short, sweet and to the point. Use humor when ever possible and always end it with a question. By ending it with a question you are leaving it open fr them to reply.

The Importance of Space in Relationships

Set aside time for friends! All too often when people become involved in a relationship they will unintentionally neglect their other friendships. People become so wrapped up on one another that they forget the importance of friends and family. It’s important to maintain your independence in a relationship. Make it a part of your weekly routine to both take time out for yourselves and your friendships.

Stop calling/texting! Your time away from each other is important so enjoy it rather then worrying about what the other is doing and blowing up their phones. If it’s not important let it wait till you see each other. You have to respect their time just as they need to respect yours.

Top 2 Communication Mistakes Women Make When Dating

If you live together allow each other time to settle in! No one wants orders barked at them as soon as they walk in the door. Give them a chance to come in, put their stuff down, maybe even change or shower before you start with your demands or conversations. People need time to relax and allow them the chance to transition from one situation to the next.

Again for those who live together, have your own personal space! This should be somewhere in the home that you can retreat to for some quality alone time. It may be to watch some TV or work on a craft or hobby you may have. There’s nothing wrong with needing some alone time so don’t take it personally.

Learn to read one another! Pay attention to body language and facial expressions so you can pick up on when your other half is in need of some space or looking for some loving and affection. When you see they look stressed or their mind seems some where else give them some space to work it out. By allowing them the opportunity to get their mind right it will put them in a better mindset to come back to you once they’re in a better mood. Don’t push or pressure them to talk to you about it, once they’re ready you’ll know.

Top 5 Tips To Writing Your First Online Message

You’ve set up your online profile, you added some hot pictures and now you’re stuck trying to figure out what to say to all these hot strangers. Have know worries I’m about to help you write the best first message. Below I’ve listed some great tips, to get you on the right track and help you to make the best first impression. You may not have realized it but what you say and how you say it makes a huge difference.

Tip #1

Grammer – Now is not the time to use wild abbreviations or nettalk. This is a perfect time, to put the spellcheck feature to use. Believe it or not receiving a message full of misspellings can be a major turn off.

Tip #2

Avoid Physical Compliments – Calling a women beautiful, gorgeous, sexy etc when you don’t know her is an automatic turn off. It comes across as a cheesy pick up line and should be avoided at all costs.

Tip #3

Use Unusual Greetings – Stay away from the one word Hello, Hi and Hey’s. It’s better to use more detailed starters like How’s it going, How are you doing etc. It’s important to have a casual tone and not get all creepy with the compliments (tip #2).

Tip #4

Interests – Talk about specific interests that you have or common interests you may have with the person you are messaging. Review their profile closely so you have some insight into who they are and what they like.

Tip #5

Using words like awkward, sorry, apologize, kinda, and probably have been proven to work to a man’s advantage. Just be careful with how and when you use them. It’s unsure why these words are favored. Maybe it has to do with making the man seem less cocky. Women like men who are confident but not cocky!

#1 Dating Tip For Men & Women

When it comes to dating there are several mistakes that we make. I’ve been doing much research and getting tons of feed back from both men and women to see where we are going wrong. I just have to say, that it’s really amazing to me just how differently men and women think. Even when it comes down to the simplest of things, we just don’t see or think of things the same way. I guess that’s why we are always hearing that famous quote “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. We truly do think, see and feel things differently. In order to have success in dating and in relationships, we need to start getting a better understanding as to the way each other thinks.

Ok so now that I’ve said all that let me tell you the biggest mistake both men and women said they encountered while dating. The biggest mistake people make is (drum roll) over thinking the “relationship”. We need to learn that when we first start dating someone, we need to take it for what it is DATING. What does this mean? It’s not a relationship, it’s not monogamous, they are more then likely dating others and so should you! There’s no point in trying to rush into things. Have fun and take your time getting to know one another.

Lets face it, there is just so much to know about a person. Remember that in the beginning people do their best to cover up all their flaws and baggage. By taking your time simply dating you have a better chance at finding out all the goods before you are too far in and caught up in the relationship. Take your time getting to know them so you can determine whether they are Mr/Mrs.Right or if they are even worthy of being Mr/Mrs.Right Now.

By trying to rush into things you take the risk of sending them running for the hills or getting caught up in an unhealthy relationship. Men are known for not wanting to rush into things, but women seem to be catching on and are just as unwilling to “settle”. Don’t be in such a rush to settle down with someone that you barely even know. If you do, more then likely you’ll end up wasting your time and being left with heart ache. Slow things down and enjoy the dating process of getting to know each other. Remember the saying, “Good things come to those who are patient!”.

Online Dating Tips For Men

10 Focus on their worse picture not their best! Lets be real they probably look more like their worse picture then they do in their best. Either way if their worse is good enough for you their best will be too.

9 Don’t be too judgmental! Don’t set your standards so high that you miss out on all the good ones.

8 Put your thinking cap on! It’s important to come up with a good conversation opener. You wants something catchy that requires a reply. Make sure you don’t give out too much information upfront. You want them to have something to ask you, questions they’ll be seeking answers too.

7 Yes, Spelling Counts! Common now, we are all adults and should be able to write like one especially when every computer has spell check. Don’t get carried away in abbreviations either not everyone knows what LOL, BRB, OMG means.

6 Use Only GOOD/Positive Pictures! Make sure you select only your BEST pictures, put up pictures that show you doing the things you enjoy (fishing, camping, playing sports), it’s okay to put up pictures with you and female friends as long as you don’t look like a creep. You should look confident in your photos and no worries you don’t have to smile.

5 Don’t Put Up BAD/Negative Pictures! This means no drunk, high, wild partying, crazy, goofy party, clowning photos. Let them learn about that side over time not before your first hello.

4 Update Your Profile On A Regular Basis! Updating your profile on a regular basis will bring you closer to the front page. Most if not all sites have programs set up to track who is active on their account and who isn’t. Increase your chances by popping up sooner.

3 Expect the Unexpected! I always say, “expect the worse and pray for the best”. You never know how things will go or how this person will look in person. They may look worse then you thought or you may be surprised to see they are prettier then expected.

2 No Nudity! Believe it or not women want things left to the imagination as well. No nude pictures and that includes one with no shirt on. Leave the goods for later on you don’t want to turn her off with your gut or your six pack.

1 Don’t Get Discouraged! There’s no fire-proof approach here, you’ll win some and you’ll loose some. There will be many who will ignore you and forget about you, don’t get caught up on them. Just keep it moving as you’ll also come across many who you’ll connect with and make it all worth while. Don’t allow yourself to be discouraged, stay positive and keep it moving.

Read: What Makes Women happy In A Relationship

Valentine Gift Ideas For Her

When it comes to picking out gifts for women I can never understand why men make suck a fuse. I mean there is just so much you can do from as simple as roses and chocolate to planing a day of pampering to a weekend getaway. Women for the most part are some of the easiest creatures to shop for. All you have to do is stop and think for a moment. Most women are great at dropping hints as to what they want, pay attention for a change. What does she talk about, hint out and straight out tell you she likes, wants or needs? That’s the best place to start. If you’re really stuck ask your lady to write a top 10 wish list to keep posted up on her fridge. This way every time an occasion comes up you can go glance at her list and know that your getting her something she really wants. Below I’ve listed the Top 10 Valentine Gift Ideas for her your best bet if money allows is to take more them one of these ideas. Remember that its not about wat it costs it’s about the thought put into the gift(s).

Top 10 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas For Her

1. Flowers/Roses
2. Chocolate
3. Romantic Card
4. Perfume
5. Romantic Dinner for Two
6. Day Spa Package
7. Jewelry
8. Weekend Get Away
9. Cruise
10. Mini Shopping Spree

When Should You Terminate a Relationship For Good?

Breaking up sure is hard. One of the hardest things ever. So hard in fact, that it makes you wish you’ve never met “the person” to begin with. However, this will only make you bitter while in the process of breaking up. Don’t be regretful, be thankful of what ever you gained from the relationship and move on, don’t drag that bitterness into your new life. It might be bury deep but if you were with this person for any extended amount of time there has to be some good memories…

For some breaking up, is a clean break. They move on and they become to each other a foggy memory, which is absolutely magnificent. However, this means people with such relationships really never had anything to hang on to or any connection at all. Perhaps, they were just killing some time.

When you have something of substance-meaning you’ve been together for a long time, have children, made promises, shared your most private thoughts and feelings and much more, it becomes really difficult when you’re determining whether you should terminate the relationship for good and once and for all. It’s so terribly hard that some resort to remaining together despite the living hell they are to each other. This isn’t good for anyone in the relationship including children if they have any.

The main problem is that sometimes familiarity wins over love. Which is totally awful, to say the least. Some couples choose to remain together for “the children’s sake.” Though their hearts are in the right place and they mean well, this will not benefit your children in anyway. If you’re staying with someone because of familiarity you’re just robbing yourselves and each other of new experiences and a chance at a new life.

If things are so bad where there’s infidelity, verbal, emotional or physical abuse. There is no time to work things out. In fact, you have little if no time to terminate that relationship before something awful really occurs. If you have children and really love them and have their best interest in mind, don’t you think they’d rather see two happy parents living separately or two parents that fight like mad dogs living under the same roof? Think about it, the answer is obvious.

Don’t feel stuck, be scared for change is scary but don’t let it incapacitate you and your reasoning. Take a good, hard stern at your relationship and ask yourself: Why should you remain? The fact of the matter, is that guilt trips might be tossed back and forth, but at the end of the day, you’re both to blame, usually one more than the other and you just have to live with it or let it go, but no matter what, if your union has become toxic-it’s time for “this” relationship to be terminated!

Here are other matters you may want to consider while in the process of breaking up or getting a divorce. Read all on it on Top 5 Best Times To Get A Divorce.